I pulled into the his garage and was praying my husband was not going to come over to help. My head was spinning and to top that off. Seriously., well I drove him straight home. As he gets into the truck I noticed he had NO pants on. He eventually stumbled to the passenger door. I then told his dad that we have to go, pull your pants up. He had his dad the only man he could actually trust and now HE has totally crossed the line with me and now has disrespected his son. My husband already has issues trusting men. As this is happening my husband calls my cell and asks if we were coming. He kept trying to guilt trip me as he is pulling and tugging on his balls and penis. So, i looked at his eyes and said I care, but I don't thing your son would appreciate his dad showing me his stuff. He then said that I don't care for him and since i won't look at him I don't care. I instantly turned away and staired out in space. He stood up from the chair he was sitting in and just dropped his pants and sat back down. The storm is literally here, it is pouring. I said, I'm married to your son and have no desire to see your stuff (i said it nicely). He continued to stay that since I don't want to see it that I am ashamed of it. He then started talking about how he wished I would just look at his penis. I said, "yeah, i'm sure it feels good, but we need to go like ASAP." Then he starts getting gross and talking about his junk. He starts talking about how good it was to be naked in the woods and feel free. I told him, "alright we have to go a huge storm is coming" he just didn't want to leave. My Hubby left and now I'm left with a man I thought I knew and someone who thought of me as a daughter, not quite. I told my hubby to take max home on the four wheeler and I would pick up the food and stuff because his dad was so drunk and that I would drive his home. He rarely drinks and to be drunk by noon was totally not normal. I didn't see anything, but he knew we were started out for an awkward bbq. Well as we were pulling up he was puttting his pants on. his son (my husband) has caught him naked out there, which is why when this one day I we drove out to the wood me, my husband and my son. Ok, I get it, but when you know people are coming out to have a BBQ with you would hope he would have his pants on. He would tell me he likes to sit naked out there because he feels free. This spot is Bob's little get away in the mornings when it is nice out. He owns a lot of woods and we fourwheel and have bon fires in an area in there. I think he likes the thrill of getting caught, even though he never has.
He hasn't been able to achieve an erection is a while and I think this has a lot to do with his actions. SO the year went on, and he continues to walk around with no bottoms on (you can't see his stuff, but you know he is not wearing anything). I was afraid he would do something stupid like punch his dad (which honestly I wish I could have). I was mortified and never told my husband. " Oh, I better cover up, haha." THen about 1 year ago he just decided to flash me after he made that comment. He will take a blanket to cover, but ALWAYS mention. he is wearing his long shirt, but nothing on. He likes to sit naked in his room(which is fine in your own privacy), but his bedroom window is where he sits at and when we are outside we go and talk to him. He would walk across the street a main road early in the am to get his mail on the otherside with only a long shirt on and nothing underneath. Over the last year he has had been more perverted and It was starting to feel uncomfortable. I did a lot of this for my husband and I did feel sad that bob was alone. He has told me I'm the daughter he never had and I felt very pleased that he liked me. I have been a great daughter-in-law and invite him to all of my family events, take him to dinner with us on fridays, I invite in over for dinner during the week (2 times), otherwise he just sits in his recliner in his room and moeps about life. He would comment about the way I looked and I just would chuckle. He has been divorced twice and lives alone for the last 15 years and not dating. He always made remarks about being one and laughing about it. Always says sexual jokes, It didn't seem to bother me in the past.I just figured he was a dirty old man (69 years old now). bob has always made remarks outloud about women's breasts, legs, etc. I have been in this family about 8 years now and the father-in-law we will call him "bob". We live on a farm and my father in law lives in the house next door. I am a 27 year old female married to my husband for almost 4 years and have a 2.5 yr old son.